Q.A reader writes, “I’m looking for good ideas for a first date. I don’t want to go overboard, and I don’t want to be cliché. This is for a meeting with a girl I’ve been talking to from eharmony.com. I asked some friends, and I’m getting barraged from all sides with everything from a simple meeting for coffee to Continue reading Where Should I Take a Woman I Met Online for a First Date? →

Q.A reader writes, “Let’s face the facts, texting has become the new standard when trying to woo a woman’s heart. Believe me, I try to not think this is true as you will probably say, but after getting numbers from numerous women and having them Continue reading Can You Text Your Way Into a Woman’s Heart? →

Q.A reader writes, “I see all these guys on the racing type motorcycles with the racing attire. A friend mentioned the other day that it’s easy to pickup chicks this way – is it true?” Continue reading Should You Buy a Hot Ride to be a Hit with Beautiful Women? →

Q.A lady reader writes, “I was told today by a matchmaker that successful, intelligent executives want women who are on the medium to higher maintenance side. For example, they do their hair, wear makeup, heels, and wear pretty clothes. They aren’t interested in earthy women, I like me I suppose. The men she set me up on dates with said Continue reading Do Successful Men Want High Maintenance Women? →

Q.A reader writes, “I am in my late thirties and am a part-time delivery person, part-time web designer. I would describe myself as funny, smart and good looking enough to find a date (Even though I don’t need one). It’s never been a problem for me to find women, I am no Continue reading Is Flirting Harmless For Today’s Married Man? →

Q.A reader writes, “Gary, I’m a regular reader of your column and a fan. I have a young gentleman friend I’ve been coaching and playing big sister to. My friend is going out with a bunch of his friends from work this weekend and there will be several girls there. He needs some quick tips on what to do, and what not to do. He just asked me about giving compliments. I told him Continue reading What Women Want – Meeting Mrs. Right at a Party or a Nightclub →